My favoriteeeeee SUPERPOWER is:
👉🏼 Being Unfuckwithable.
💭Technically this isn’t a word but it sure holds a lot of meaning to those of us who have had our share of humbling experiences in our dating life. 🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️
(More on those learning lessons coming in future posts. But for now…)
⚡️Let’s go over what ‘unfuckwithable’ behavior does not entail:
• Being aggressive toward men.
• Putting them down.
• Shutting down
• Giving up on dating.
• Allowing the past to convince you opening up again isn’t worth the risk.
• Thinking if you were hotter/skinnier/etc you’d be invincible
• Getting together with your girlfriends to predominantly blame the opposite sex for your unhappy lot in life.
⚡️What I teach (more in depth) in my 6 week coaching program, is that truly being ‘unfuckwithable’ is:
• Taking radical responsibility of you.
•Grieving the past,
• Allowing yourself to FEEL (not talk around the feeling).
• Maintaining a playful vibe with dudes while asserting a boundary in a non-offensive way.
• Most importantly, setting up a strong relationship with yourself to RECOGNIZE when you’re slipping into these RED FLAG patterns.
• How to course correct immediately & confidently.
⚡️The most common misconception I see women do is overcompensate passivity with aggression. Or just being straight up passive which leaves you powerless.
⚡️The key to possessing this superpower is knowing yourself and knowing when to step in for yourself assertively.
⚡️It’s one of the juiciest secrets that i accidentally discovered on my own inner-work journey 11 years ago. We can have this superpower but most aren’t aware that it’s possible because no one is teaching it like this!
🎈If you’re feeling called to this inner/mindset/healing work, please reach out in the comments below or email me at amanda_koss(at)yahoo.com --
💭Technically this isn’t a word but it sure holds a lot of meaning to those of us who have had our share of humbling experiences in our dating life. 🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️
(More on those learning lessons coming in future posts. But for now…)
⚡️Let’s go over what ‘unfuckwithable’ behavior does not entail:
• Being aggressive toward men.
• Putting them down.
• Shutting down
• Giving up on dating.
• Allowing the past to convince you opening up again isn’t worth the risk.
• Thinking if you were hotter/skinnier/etc you’d be invincible
• Getting together with your girlfriends to predominantly blame the opposite sex for your unhappy lot in life.
⚡️What I teach (more in depth) in my 6 week coaching program, is that truly being ‘unfuckwithable’ is:
• Taking radical responsibility of you.
•Grieving the past,
• Allowing yourself to FEEL (not talk around the feeling).
• Maintaining a playful vibe with dudes while asserting a boundary in a non-offensive way.
• Most importantly, setting up a strong relationship with yourself to RECOGNIZE when you’re slipping into these RED FLAG patterns.
• How to course correct immediately & confidently.
⚡️The most common misconception I see women do is overcompensate passivity with aggression. Or just being straight up passive which leaves you powerless.
⚡️The key to possessing this superpower is knowing yourself and knowing when to step in for yourself assertively.
⚡️It’s one of the juiciest secrets that i accidentally discovered on my own inner-work journey 11 years ago. We can have this superpower but most aren’t aware that it’s possible because no one is teaching it like this!
🎈If you’re feeling called to this inner/mindset/healing work, please reach out in the comments below or email me at amanda_koss(at)yahoo.com --
I’ve got a free 30 minute exploratory phone sesh with your name written on it.
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